Sex is a conversation, a wordless exchange. Everything between you and your partner and all things enveloping the two of you are there in the bedroom. Every aspect gets communicated: the level of your commitment, whether or not you are able to open in vulnerability...
In tantra, sex is sacred, as is the body. This is a radically different attitude than the one most of us grew up with. The majority of us learned that sex is naughty and that pleasure is something we need to sneak. The conventional worldview...
In soulmate relationships the centers are aligned, meaning, the development of each center in one person is mirrored back by the partner’s. Ideally, we would have an individual with perfect flowering in every center meeting another perfect person, but of course that never happens. Each...
Orgasm is not what you think. We’ve been brainwashed by the conventional culture to believe that orgasm is something it’s not. This indoctrination is so pervasive we don’t even question the notion that orgasm is the goal of sex. It’s part of what it is,...
Osho said that soulmate creation has to do with the centers being aligned. First, we’ll take a look at what the centers are, and then in the next chapter, how to get them into alignment. Tantra uses the word “chakras,” but many people are uncomfortable...
All extraordinary relationships and phenomenal sex are based on a foundation of safety. In tantra we say that this stems from the root or base chakra, down there close to your tail bone. This safety is the root of the tree of our relationship with...
Word on the street is that “the friend zone” is the dead end of romantic possibility and certainly not where you’ll find great sex. That may be true if what you’re seeking is a wild weekend with a fantasy figure which often includes, if you’ve...
Whether you are single or partnered, you’ll need to work on yourself to create Tantric Mating, but not in the way you think. We’ve been told many untruths such as: it’s all about improving our appearance, or being more youthful or slim, or owning more...
When Greg and I decided to get married, we chose a cute little chapel downtown. We were planning a party later in the year for family and friends, but for now we didn’t want to wait. We got dressed up, arrived at the appointed time,...
Millions sit waiting passively for a love that never arrives. Both men and women lie like Sleeping Beauty, hoping they will be kissed and awakened. We dream of a love that enlivens, raises us to an exalted level of being, just like that portrayed in...