Tantric relating teaches us to give another person space to be upset. Women especially have been socialized to be so...
Touch is all-important for tantric relating. Tantrikas practice reminding ourselves that we live in bodies not just heads, and that...
A relationship is never going to be a finished commodity if you stay alive and growing. It’s true relating can...
Who in the world has ever said, “Please stop saying nice things about me. I’ve had enough”? No one. Who...
Tantra is all about being in the body. Conventional culture is all about living our lives in our heads: thinking,...
If you’re going to have an agreement to bring everything up, you and your partner will most probably need to...
Many couples’ relationships are trapped in layers of resentment. The lovers are still unfinished or mad about things that happened...
Everything you haven’t talked about is going to show up in the bedroom. It’s going to appear as “I don’t...
You’ve made agreements to talk about things when they happen, or at least as soon as possible. You know that...
If the person sitting in front of you was your Beloved, how would you treat them? I suspect it would...