Throughout my 20s I was on fire for enlightenment. I was convinced it took much effort and strain, and that it required many actions I was not going to be able to take: meditate hours a day, isolate, forfeit love and sex, give up being...
I'm applying for a doctoral program and they require an Autobiographical Statement. Here's my life organized as a progression toward a PhD:Perhaps being born into an all-American dysfunctional family is an auspicious beginning for a future psychotherapist. It took the next fifty years to overcome...
The following is a questionnaire I developed for a matchmaking firm. How do you score? Is someone dreaming of you as their Perfect Beloved?PhysicalAre you still wearing clothes from 5-10 years ago? Are you wearing old-people clothes? Do you have an up-to-date haircut? Are...
To become a free human being, it’s essential to examine conventional beliefs and expectations and discard those that don’t fit the world you want to create. Take some time and think through these commonly held “truths,” and consider if you want to keep believing them...
You now have all you need to create and maintain a soulmate relationship using the mindset and methods of Tantric Mating. The question is, will you do it? You must live your life dedicated to personal and spiritual growth and support this in your partner....
Consider for a moment the word “honeymoon.” You will discover a subtle brainwashing that the beginning of a relationship is romantic and blissful, and the rest of it is not. The message is that you’re going to be high on sexual attraction and love for...
“… and they lived happily ever after.” That little phrase from our favorite fairy tale set us up for disappointment when our relationships didn’t glide on magically without effort on our parts. It’s not exactly like that, is it? Instead, when we hear it's going...
Tantric sex is as good as you’ve heard it is. It has little resemblance, however, to the conventional style of sex which consists of effort, tension, focus on the goal of orgasm, explosion and release, and when it’s over, both parties are spent.If sex is...
You know it’s you (right?) who is responsible for creating the magic in your relationship – not your partner, Tinkerbelle, or the goddess of love. The good news is that there are so many ways to up the magic quotient and increase the likelihood of...
Sex is a conversation, a wordless exchange. Everything between you and your partner and all things enveloping the two of you are there in the bedroom. Every aspect gets communicated: the level of your commitment, whether or not you are able to open in vulnerability...