03 Nov Dedicated to Personal and Spiritual Growth
You now have all you need to create and maintain a soulmate relationship using the mindset and methods of Tantric Mating. The question is, will you do it? You must live your life dedicated to personal and spiritual growth and support this in your partner. You’ll need to understand that growth is sometimes painful and that going through rough spots is often a good sign that you are growing. If you are increasingly expanding in the seven centers, if you are practicing seeing the Divine in your partner, if you are excited to explore new ways of sexuality, you will create your Perfect Beloved and your Soulmate relationship.
Some of you have been on the personal and spiritual growth path for years, while some of you are entering it now. It’s all good. You’re going to want to dedicate yourself to this growth for the rest of your life. The opportunity for more never stops. Osho, famed tantra master, says we have until our last breath to continue to evolve.
We talked in Tantric Dating about how if you’re single, you’ll want to be working on yourself: your physical health, your emotional stability, your financial wealth, your judgmental-ness, becoming a heart-centered person, and cultivating a more spiritual attitude towards others. You’ll need to reject the ways the mainstream culture recommends you look for a partner, open your heart, and engage in your personal work.
In Tantric Relating we’ll talk more about how to communicate verbally and non- to create and maintain your soulmate relationship. As a couple you might choose activities to share together that promote personal and spiritual growth. The two of you may take a hike to get lost in the beauty of nature. You may want to study something together, some kind of class or a tantra workshop to learn more about how to relate intimately and sexually.
I know that since my partner and I are both on personal and spiritual growth paths, our relationship can only get better with time. There’s a lot of societal brainwashing that sex, love and romance get worse as you get older. If you’re both dedicated to personal and spiritual growth, it can only get better as you solve life’s problems and create your life is exactly as you want it. This is possible for you and is your future if you choose it.
© 2022 Catherine Auman
This is an excerpt from Catherine Auman’s book, Tantric Mating: Using Tantric Secrets to Create a Relationship Full of Sex, Love and Romance. Tantric Mating is a companion to her previous book Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process named by BookAuthority as one of the Best Dating Books of All Time.
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