You now have all you need to create and maintain a soulmate relationship using the mindset and methods of Tantric Mating. The question is, will you do it? You must live your life dedicated to personal and spiritual growth and support this in your partner....
Consider for a moment the word “honeymoon.” You will discover a subtle brainwashing that the beginning of a relationship is romantic and blissful, and the rest of it is not. The message is that you’re going to be high on sexual attraction and love for...
“… and they lived happily ever after.” That little phrase from our favorite fairy tale set us up for disappointment when our relationships didn’t glide on magically without effort on our parts. It’s not exactly like that, is it? Instead, when we hear it's going...
Tantric sex is as good as you’ve heard it is. It has little resemblance, however, to the conventional style of sex which consists of effort, tension, focus on the goal of orgasm, explosion and release, and when it’s over, both parties are spent.If sex is...
You know it’s you (right?) who is responsible for creating the magic in your relationship – not your partner, Tinkerbelle, or the goddess of love. The good news is that there are so many ways to up the magic quotient and increase the likelihood of...
Sex is a conversation, a wordless exchange. Everything between you and your partner and all things enveloping the two of you are there in the bedroom. Every aspect gets communicated: the level of your commitment, whether or not you are able to open in vulnerability...
In tantra, sex is sacred, as is the body. This is a radically different attitude than the one most of us grew up with. The majority of us learned that sex is naughty and that pleasure is something we need to sneak. The conventional worldview...
In soulmate relationships the centers are aligned, meaning, the development of each center in one person is mirrored back by the partner’s. Ideally, we would have an individual with perfect flowering in every center meeting another perfect person, but of course that never happens. Each...
Orgasm is not what you think. We’ve been brainwashed by the conventional culture to believe that orgasm is something it’s not. This indoctrination is so pervasive we don’t even question the notion that orgasm is the goal of sex. It’s part of what it is,...
Osho said that soulmate creation has to do with the centers being aligned. First, we’ll take a look at what the centers are, and then in the next chapter, how to get them into alignment. Tantra uses the word “chakras,” but many people are uncomfortable...