Are You Soulmate Material?

17 Nov Are You Soulmate Material?

The following is a questionnaire I developed for a matchmaking firm. How do you score? Is someone dreaming of you as their Perfect Beloved?

Physical

• Are you still wearing clothes from 5-10 years ago?
• Are you wearing old-people clothes?
• Do you have an up-to-date haircut?
• Are you sexy?
• Do you have some kind of exercise routine?

Emotional

• Do you have unresolved issues from your childhood?
• Are you clinging to a past love? Are you still in love with someone?
• Do you feel like it’s okay to take out your frustrations on other people?

Financial

• Are you financially stable?
• Do you realize that anyone you marry will be responsible for your debt?
• Are you in financial integrity?

Mental

• Are you keeping up on current events, cultural and political, at least enough to converse?
• Have you read a book in the past year? The past month?

Social

• Do you have enough friends?
• Are you Universally Social?
• Do you have an interesting life that someone would like to join? Or are you a couch potato?

Home

• Would your dream lover feel comfortable in your home?
• Is your bedroom sexy?
• When was the last time you bought new sheets? A new bedspread?

Spiritual

• When did you last feel awe at the beauty of the Universe?
• Have you handled any addictions you might have?
• Do you make any financial contributions to causes that inspire you? Do any charity work?

© 2022 Catherine Auman

This is an excerpt from Catherine Auman’s book, Tantric Mating: Using Tantric Secrets to Create a Relationship Full of Sex, Love and Romance. Tantric Mating is a companion to her previous book Tantric Dating: Bringing Love and Awareness to the Dating Process named by BookAuthority as one of the Best Dating Books of All Time.

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